Christmas Chaos or Calm?
Ahhh… the holidays are upon us once again…
And you probably have noticed that I haven’t blogged in awhile.
I’ve had every intention of doing so and it seems that there are many other things vying for my attention as well. I’m sure that you’re probably in a similar situation- lots of activities, parties, shopping, cards, decorations, crowds, traffic, cookies, … and only just so much time in a day.
I have several different thoughts about holiday preparation this year and wanted to reflect on them with you.
Are you ready for Christmas? How organized and prepared are you for the holidays? Responses range from “ugh” to “I’m never ready” to “Of course- I finished my shopping before Thanksgiving”.
The good and bad news about the calendar is that Christmas comes whether we’re ready or not. And what does it mean to really be ready? Usually so much is built up into the preparation for Christmas that by the time it gets here, we all need a break. We can hear the loud, collective sigh as we finally take a breath and hopefully reflect on what is important to each of us individually.
Due to my profession as an organizer and coach, I am also asked very specifically on if I’m personally ready for Christmas and if so, what is my secret? The short answer is “Yes, I’m ready.” The secret is equally simple… I only do that which I am able and nothing more. I still leave time for myself to breathe prior to the holidays and maintain the calm around me.
Here are some of the ways that I’ve simplified.. dare I admit this in the internet forum 
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* I send holiday cards with a picture of my children and the message being the same for all recipients. Definitely takes less time although I admit it’s not as personal.
* I didn’t put all of my decorations up. I did the basics and I omitted the extras. I was honest with myself that I just didn’t have energy to put it all up and take it all down this year.
* I sent shortbread for some gifts. Vermont Shortbread Company is fabulous and they take care of the shipping for me!
* I turned down some party invitations even though I’m sure I missed a great time.
I share these with you so that you know I, like you, have to make choices. I prefer to choose calm and so my choices reflect that personal balance for me. I wish for you much peace and happiness throughout the holiday season, regardless of which holiday(s) you celebrate . May you find harmony in the season and enjoy the time with your family and friends.
